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Yet here I was, holding this DIY and insensitive as heck headband, wondering what to do next. My son excitedly snatched it out of my hand and put it on. As he ran down the sidewalk, I hurried behind, struggling to find language that would explain to him, a 4 year old, just how offensive this object was.
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He didn’t, but it made me realize how much more I need to prepare for such moments. How do you explain the horrific treatment of indigenous people at the hands of white European colonialists? canada goose clearance How do you explain that it’s insensitive and offensive for a room full of mostly white folks (he may be the only student of color, as I am Latina and his father is white) to canadian goose jacket “wear” someone else’s culture, good intentions be damned?
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“Headdresses are given to warriors and chiefs. To have children make a headdress ignores this sacred meaning,” Hawksworth wrote. “It’d be like having them make their own Victoria Crosses. It’s the same as war medals, and to be honest, it’s disrespectful to our people.”
Misko Beaudrie, an Ojibwe mother, had the same canada goose clearance sale struggle at her child’s school, walking into her son’s class and seeing construction paper Native American heads with headbands hung on the wall with students’ names on them. She later saw a photo of students eating lunch while dressed up as Canada Goose online Indians. “As an indigenous family, it’s disturbing and upsetting to see your culture boiled down to stereotypical images of what it means to be Native American.. We are so much more diverse than that,” she wrote in an email.
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And this is exactly why I am calling out appropriation. To me, and to individuals who have ties to the Native American community, making headbands and headdresses just because kids think it’s “fun” is not a valid excuse.
Canada Goose Parka As parents, we should all be angry when our schools fail to educate our children in a respectful manner. It doesn’t just end in my son’s classroom. Hours after I sent out a response reiterating just how offensive this “lesson” was, I happened upon a Facebook post featuring a teacher’s flier asking for students to create “Native American canada goose deals names” for themselves. Moments after that, a friend cheap Canada Goose posted about how horrified she was that her daughter’s preschool classroom was singing the “Ten Little Indians” song for their Thanksgiving party, including canada goose store overtly racist lines about them “shooting Canada Goose Outlet arrows.” Canada Goose Parka
Canada Goose Jackets It shouldn’t lie on the shoulders of marginalized individuals to do this hard work. Parents and educators must be mindful in how we teach lessons on native cultures. And we need to remind our teachers and other school staff that they need to be mindful. Because while it may just be a “lesson” to some kids, it’s another’s way of life. Canada Goose Jackets
canada goose uk black friday “Our culture and ceremonies run deep and proud. They are sacred, and our ancestors died to protect our rights to celebrate them,” Beaudrie says. canada goose uk black friday
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